Are They Real?

A free tool to help you check if an online relationship is genuine - or a scam.

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Welcome - You Are Taking A Smart Step

Meeting people online can be wonderful, but unfortunately, some people use the internet to take advantage of others. Romance scams cost Americans over $1.3 billion every year.

This tool is here to help you. It will not judge you. It will simply ask you some questions about your online relationship and help you spot possible warning signs.

You can use this tool to:

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Take the Quiz - Answer simple yes/no questions about your online relationship. You will get a risk score at the end.

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Check Their Photo - Learn how to do a reverse image search to see if their photo is stolen from someone else.

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Learn Warning Signs - Read about the most common tricks scammers use.

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Get Help - Find phone numbers and websites where you can report scams or talk to someone.

Upgrade to Full Protection Report

The quiz is free. After completing it, get a detailed personal safety report (PDF) you can print and share with family.

$4.99 / one-time
Personalized risk assessment with full explanation
Scam type identification (what kind of scam this matches)
Deep dive on every red flag you triggered
Step-by-step action plan for your situation
Evidence collection guide for reporting
Printable 1-page summary for family

Or purchase the report now and take the quiz after.

Relationship Safety Quiz

Answer each question honestly. This quiz is completely private - your answers are not saved or sent anywhere. They stay on your device only.

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Check Their Photo

A reverse image search lets you take someone's photo and search the internet to see where else it appears. Scammers often steal photos from models, military members, or other people's social media.

If their photo shows up on many different websites under different names - that is a major red flag.

How To Do a Reverse Image Search

Save their photo to your computer or phone. You can take a screenshot or right-click and save the image.
Click one of the search tools below. It will open in a new window.
Upload the photo using the camera or upload button on the search page.
Look at the results. If the same face appears with different names or on stock photo sites, it is likely stolen.

Common Warning Signs of a Scam

Scammers follow well-known patterns. If you see more than two or three of these signs, please be very careful.

Romance Red Flags

  • They say "I love you" very quickly - sometimes within days or weeks of meeting online.
  • They want to move off the dating site fast - to text, WhatsApp, or email where there is less protection.
  • They talk about a future together immediately - marriage, moving in, or visiting you.
  • Their messages feel copied or overly poetic - scammers reuse the same scripts with many victims.
  • They seem "too perfect" - they match all your interests and always say exactly what you want to hear.

ID Identity Red Flags

  • They refuse to do a live video call - or their camera is always "broken."
  • Their photos look like a model - or look too professional and perfect.
  • They claim to be military, a doctor overseas, or on an oil rig - these are the most common cover stories.
  • They can never meet in person - there is always an excuse or emergency.
  • Their stories do not add up - small details change or do not make sense.

$ Financial Red Flags

  • They ask for money for any reason - medical emergencies, plane tickets, customs fees, legal trouble.
  • They ask you to send gift cards or cryptocurrency - these are nearly impossible to trace or recover.
  • They share an "investment opportunity" - especially crypto or forex trading platforms.
  • They send you money and ask you to forward it - this could make you part of a money laundering scheme.
  • They know your banking details - or ask for account numbers, passwords, or Social Security numbers.
Remember: A real person who loves you will never ask you for money before meeting you in person.

Get Help and Report a Scam

If you think you have been scammed - or if you are not sure - these organizations can help. You are not alone, and it is not your fault.

Protect Yourself Going Forward

Stop all contact with the person you suspect is a scammer. Do not tell them you are suspicious.
Do not send any more money. If you have already sent money, contact your bank immediately.
Save all messages and evidence - screenshots, emails, receipts. This helps investigators.
Tell someone you trust - a family member, friend, or the helplines above. There is no shame in asking for help.

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